The forums really aren't the way for you to get real-time help. The odds of you 1) finding someone on your server, 2) finding someone who can/is willing to/is interested in helping, and 3) finding all of that within any sort of a timeframe are astronomically small. It might be worth seeing if there are any discord channels or linkshells you can join that you can ask for help in. Or if you're in an actual party, simply use the in-game tools provided, like "replenish party ranks".