I'm really hoping that thinking thing is like a REALLY poorly worded way of saying dont discriminate against neuro-divergent people.
But other than that a lot of these rules are just flat out bad. Prohibiting playstyle suggestions will do nothing but encourage "you dont pay my sub" types to carry on getting carried, bringing down the experience of the other 3-7 people in the group. If I can get banned for saying "I'm at full health it's ok to dps" or "please put garuda on obey" or "please use skills other than skill sunder, the game highlights your skills for you to know which order to press them in", then that makes me really not want to use duty finder in fear that I'm going to either have an absolutely grueling time in a dungeon, or get banned for just wanting to help others get the most out of the game.