Punished For wanting to get stuff done

[SturmChurro]

If there is a bad healer, perhaps you can help teach them to be better? Don't expect every single player to be perfect at the game, the duties brings all types of players whether new or hardcore so don't be so quick to jump ship otherwise the penalty is working as intended. Also consider making parties via the PF if you want to avoid randoms effecting your gameplay

Nope. They do not listen to you, at all. Don't bother. Sometimes they just decide to kick you instead! PF parties are just as bad, or even worse, and take longer for the same outcome!

Also, "mentors" sometimes you try to give "advice" way too hard, and it comes off as very condescending.

I just do PoTD/HoH to level anymore. I hate leveling in the first place, but at least HoH gives me hair I can sell, and pets. Floor 40-50 of PoTD is a complete nightmare, but if you can get past that then the groups at 50-60 are generally at +99/99 and are there specifically to level, so about 99% of the time you won't have a problem there.

I wonder what OP's definition of "bad healer" is.
As healer, I met once a tank that raged at me because I weren't to keep his HP always fulled at 95%+

(edit: and I saw him using potions when it was 80%)

I'll give you an example from yesterday's roulette. Aurum Vale, healer is healing themselves at full half the time. I'm a red mage at 20% health because the healer decides they will only focus heal (if they actually heal someone other than themselves) the tank the entire encounter. Also, dies on the first boss. Oh, and was eating the tank's fruit, so the tank had to pull the boss across the boss room to find a fruit.