what is it with these damn elitists in this game?

[RuleofThree]

A lot people seem to argue for the "poor casual player" who just cant get a kill because "mean elitsts" kick them all the time, while not realising, that those meanies have probably set up parties in a way that benefitted their goals and their playstyle - and the casual player joined them, instead of looking for a party that benefitted their goals and their playstyle.

Those are the people that are using there subpar play style as a crutch, they want a free win. I'm not denying they exist, it's a very real thing, and disgusting. You have every right to get pissed at people that try to do this. I personally have gone in to parties thinking I'm ready for this part of the trial, find out I'm not, and feel like an ass for embarrassing myself and wasting peoples time, and leave....

But so does the other side of the coin....and you guys seem all too quick to dismiss those people as 'oh...he's just being a bit vocal about his opinions.' or even worse 'He has a right to publicly shame and bully you by calling you bad and worthless, you are ruining his play experience.' Sitting here and telling everyone 'Oh, it's cool if someone owns up to their mistake, and says they'll do better. We'll take their word on it, and everything will be fine.' No it won't? And if it does, I - again - want to know where you are living, and if I can have a slice of that comradely.