Quote Originally Posted by HyoMinPark View Post
Housing emails functioning as intended or not, if you don’t step into your house for not only 45 days, but an additional 35 after that to lose your reclaimed items from the NPC, that tells me that the house itself wasn’t something direly needed to the OP. I’m sympathetic towards how crappy this housing system is, but if you go 80 days without even looking at or thinking about your house? I just question how invested one is when they go almost 3 months without using this asset that they are now quitting the game over.
That's glossing over a very real issue several players seem to been having lately. There have been reports of people getting other player's housing e-mails despite not owning one, or they simply poof into the void.

Sometimes life happens, and it's not up to us to judge whether another player is invested or not in the house. It could be surgery, deployment, or anything else that prevents them from playing for an extended period of time. Pointing out the game's flaws isn't meant as an attack to the company. It's criticism to help them improve upon the game and address the concern a lot of the playerbase have. Sitting comfortably on your side of the fence and judging them isn't helping anyone.