I've been a mentor for over 2 years and you are just being a cry baby about the whole thing.

For one, mentors are not bound by a legal document forcing them to help you or explain the fight, ontop of that they don't deserve to be taddled on for not carrying you.

This game is all about impressions, if I get the impression that someone is being snotty or just bad in general I will go out of my way to not help them.

If a newbie is kind and pleasant I have no problem helping them but demanding that I help you just because I'm a mentor is like being a screaming child / brat, we are not your parents.

Simple.