45 days is too short. There are so many real life situations that can easily take you away from your gaming rig for even longer than that. The demolition timer should be the same as game cards which is 60 days. It's not uncommon for people to be unable to play for a month, but much less so for two months.

Tenants should be able to reset timers. I don't understand why this isn't the case. It's very common for people to pool their gil together to buy a home and furnish it together. SE know this, they have direct access to any data pointing to this. Yet the housing system acts like this is a rare occurrence so only owners of private homes can reset the timer. This is incredibly unfair on players who poured resources into the house but can do -nothing- to keep it.

The housing system is far better than before but better does not mean perfect. The demolition timer and how it can be reset really needs to be revisited by SE because it is currently too punishing.