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Edit: Okay, other than addressing me - do you hate or like it when they do it? Preferences?

Edit 2: I also didn't realize this was the norm and am now painfully aware how much of a casual healer I am. I'll go back to my rock - and I am really thankful for the corrections, even if I disagree on some points!
I would prefer more emphasis on outgoing damage, which would encourage more defensive play. Presently, tank stance and aggro combo abilities border on a waste since they're so infrequently used. It's also why I believe the aggro combos will be pruned come 5.0 and simply turning on tank stance will give you enmity.

That all said, no need to hide away. There's nothing wrong with being inexperienced. At least you took the time to ask questions. If you aim to improve as a healer and challenge harder content, that's the first step. Contrary to popular belief, the raid community is generally very open to people wanting to improve their play.