As someone who browses it regularly, the FFXIV subreddit is home to some of the most joyless and fun-hating players who take this game and everything to do with it way too seriously, more so than any other video game sub on the site, which is probably a result of it being a haven for people who got banned from here.
While I don't doubt some people got banned unjustifiably, I think there's a pretty significant number of players who should probably stay as they are for a while longer.