I agree with you that what WoW does is significantly worse.
That doesn’t allay the concern that we are on that path merrily marching towards it. 2 years ago we didn’t have emotes tied to $150 statues. We didn’t have months where they would add 5 unique cash shop items. Have months with multiple merchandise items announched. We didn’t have a Companion app with IAP added.
The questions become “What’s next?” and “Where does it end?”
People are concerned because the answer that some people come up with is “I don’t know anymore.” That can be scary and offputting to people who wouldn’t want to invest in a game or ecosystem that operates in ways they don’t want to be part of.