Quote Originally Posted by Miste View Post
Hm...the only one I kind of remember was I think you posted an Antitower video? That one? I only recall that one...likely because I tried to help you there as well showing a different perspective of me doing the same dungeon, just one pull, and explained there are different things you can cast at different times that benefit the party more than being a bit overly cautious with healing or overhealing.

I didn't know people did that on youtube since if it was that video I only looked at it once likely very close to when you posted it and never saved the link or saw it again.

There are always gonna be jerks out there who critique people in the absolute wrong way IE: rude insults etc...it happens no matter what..and even if there were no parsers these types of people would still exist and just find other things to use to be insulting.

Not everyone is a jerk though and there are plenty of people who are considered "good" at the game who are generally nice people and also willing to help others with their jobs/roles and content. I know plenty just on my server alone (and even more on my alt's server on Aether data center), which might surprise you to hear since I know you mentioned you don't like our server in the past and I also recall I said to you back then that you are free to contact me if you need help with anything.
I posted it then because some of you on the forum wouldn't believe me (pre stormblood) . I knew it was not the best run ever but that was also a pretty much blind run. I don't see people out on our server to forum static/fc with because I know it's the trolls official server.


Quote Originally Posted by Bourne_Endeavor View Post
You didn't ask for feedback.
Yes I did, or I would not have posted it. I was not looking for "you should play my way" but "this is how I've been playing thus far (without help)", and it was also two weeks before SB, so it's NOT relevant now, regardless if I was right or not. But that lily system works worked fine with my previous strategy at 4.0 release, but when they got rid of Cleric Stance, that made other strategies more viable, which I use Assize more than I use any of the other Lily stuff when it's available.

But let's not keep derailing this. A small handful of people are responsible for all the hand-wringing in and outside the game, and they are fully aware they are being jerks. If the OP isn't being a jerk to players, then they should not be getting depressed BY the game. If you play any content in this game, and your response to a wipe is "you suck", then you're the jerk who needs to leave.