Just go play other games while waiting on all the cool (that will probably give use headache for a long time though) changes. They are going to fix(?) Ifrit's loot anyways, so why keep fighting it now? Or take the time you have until the patch to lvl any other job since now it take less than a week to get it to 50.

AKA GO PLAY SKYRIM TO HAVE YOUR HORSE KILL THE DRAGONS AND ALSO HAVE GAY MARRIAGE LOL - not

As people said, maybe all you lack is a nice Linkshell. Mine for example always does Ifrit for new people if they need it. If you have like half the party (tank, mages and Idk 1 DD?) knowing the battle it's already enough for a win. If they are wiping because of 2 members, they are the newbs. Other setups just take longer to win, that's all.