Thanks for your response all. The key takeaway form this is the use of the party finder. I will try this. Seriously, I waited hours using the duty finder and it didn't pop so there I'm thinking this totally sucks balls. How can you have a 8 man dungeon tied to the MSQ? Made me so angry that i'd spent all my time doing the MSQ only to be F$%^ed by the dumbass game mechanic. Aomeone asked the question about what upgrade I bought. It was to heavensward, just so I could get through the last 3 quests of ARR. I feel I should have gone all the way to Stormblood, but I didn't wanna miss out on too much.

I guess I'll try party finder, so thanks for that tip. Plus, I will look into the language settings also. They shouldn't have made it this mystifying to understand.

Thanks again all.