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Welcome to "Not-WoW", a game with different mechanics, communities, expectations and requirements. Please leave your WoW experience at the door, like I do as a 12 year WoW player who has Tanked, Healed and DPS'd across all iterations of WoW and during all of their own mechanics, community expectations and requirements. Both being trinity-MMORPGs doesn't magically make them identical.