Ok, so I'm gonna be honest and say this is both a topic for me to vent as well as a cry for help.

When I first came back to SB after having basically missed the majority of HW, my intent was to main Rdm as it seemed really fun. Once I got it leveled up so I could continue where I left off, I was having a blast with the job and was confident in having it as my main. Once I started gearing it up, people started talking about not bringing Rdms at all and that Rdms were worthless, so this had me getting worried. I next leveled up Smn since it was getting buffs and seemed that it would be desired for it's damage and utility. Once I finished leveling it up and gearing it, people were back to only wanting physical dps jobs and wanted nothing to do with casters. So this again got me panicked and I decided that I'd try to level Mch since it was already 60 and try to learn how to do the whole overheat with Wild Fire stuff. Now with 4.2 notes, people are already starting to say that Mch is worthless and a triple melee + Brd party is the way to go and now I just feel like quitting the game entirely.

I just don't know what to do anymore, I'm tired of swapping to another job only for that job to be deemed worthless in the eyes of the community and end up being excluded from potential play. I'm tired of swapping jobs and ending up being mediocre in them all because I haven't dedicated myself to focusing on one and learning it fully. I just want to be able to enjoy the game with people and have fun learning and mastering a singular job instead of constantly gimping myself. I just don't know what to do anymore. x_x