A random private message from a friend and former student today prompted me to share what was said (with their permission, of course), but more importantly, it really reminded me of perhaps the biggest loss of the 4.0 PvP changes, which was the dedicated community, and sense thereof that formed within and around it. To some it may seem like I'm simply beating the old "3.x was better!" horse again, but I felt it was important to share what's been left unsaid, but may perhaps be felt by many.
(The quote has been edited for grammar and punctuation.)
Let it be known that many of their sentiments echo my own, and on my side of things, it was fulfilling to find others with an interest and a willingness to learn, especially at a time where I had stopped raiding, left my longtime FC, and just aimlessly logged in, doing nothing, accomplishing nothing, and expecting nothing. It gave me a renewed enjoyment in the game, a purpose, an identity. When I set out to get back into PvP (back in 3.3), I self-styled myself as "The White Hot Machinist" - a MCH player wearing all white, whom I wanted people to immediately recognize as a skilled ally, or a tenacious threat. Most importantly, it once again gave me a sense of a community I could dedicate myself and happily belong to, which was my very same motivation for raiding back in the days of Coil.This is a bit sudden/random but. . . I wanted to say thank you. Thanks for getting [me] into pvp and curious about it. I'm sure I said it before, or something along similiar lines but yeah. I remember hearing people tell me about it and in my mind I was like, "What? Ehhhh this sounds weird. What the hell is this PvP? In FFXIV? Noooo must be lame or something." Something I just never expected myself to get into as much as I did really. I met soooo many people; all sorts of people teaching me different things and people I saw as rivals. Even learned how to play some of the classes in PvE from PvP. It truly was an experience I never expected and defiantly was well worth it. I honestly don't know what I'd be doing with the game if I never came across the dueling circle and got curious. Most likely wouldn't understand any of the classes in PvP or PvE honestly. That's how bad it was for me before that. Just playing blindly without really fully understanding everything. This game is the only game where, for once in my life, I wanted to become really good at it, and prove it to others. Prove it to the people that taught me. Prove to my enemies/rivals and show I finally became a challenge to them after all this time. I never felt that way towards a PvP game before; to want to become that good. I'm not sure why I felt that way. I don't think I'll ever understand, but I did, it happened, and I tried. . . I really did. Just some times it was mentally too much to me. That's why, unfortunately I end stopping mid-way through with the Feast seasons (not to the mention the complete [revamp of] 4.0 pvp with its problems still, sadly, and many many other reasons). But yea. . . either way it was all great and well worth every min of it and I thank you for that.
I don't want to make this a huge personal detour down memory lane, but I wanted to say that THIS is the unspoken truth of what was lost with 4.0 PvP, if perhaps to make a mass appeal or reduce the skill gap to make it more accessible. Thing is, the player quoted above learned all I could teach them within 2 weeks. Hell, within 4 days, duels against them began to become dangerously close wins. The key is that they tried. They wanted to learn and improve, and they did. Quickly. Others saw our flashy battles (MCH vs MCH), and approached with curiosity. Some just watched, others jumped right in. I coached, I encouraged, I helped forge and unify a community on what was one of the smallest NA servers at the time. Nothing ever felt better. Even beyond that was the larger community of long time PvPers whom I had fought beside and against, learned from, and enjoyed a part of the game that only those who gave it a chance discovered was a diamond in the rough.
That sense of community is barely there now, and many simply departed, alienated and upset by the drastic changes. In their place are players that largely don't want to learn, don't NEED to learn, and consider it a random dice roll for a reward, and grab-and-go XP besides. Our once thriving Discords still remain, but sorely lack the vibrance, activity, and competitive community that once was. All this, unseen by the larger population of FFXIV that once pretended we don't exist, and perhaps would be happier if such were true.
Some may consider this to just be conjecture, and more nostalgia, glossing over the bigger issues PvP had then, and perhaps still has now. But it needed to be said, and it keeps needing to be said, if only so that SE themselves understands this and this alone:
With the changes to PvP in 4.0, you gained more players for it, yes, but you lost its community.