It's not about having more feminine gear, really. Like Rokke's been saying, it's equality in what we do get. I made a post a little while back in Lukha's thread about how much of an afterthought designing gear for guys is in this game. Here are the pictures...
Note the character on the far left wearing the maxi dress:
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https://imgur.com/pz1vAmL
And this is the same set, for guys:
https://imgur.com/p4MaIGT
That's not equality in the slightest. Girls got a cute brand-new themed maxi dress and guys got a re-coloured crafting set sans pants. If it had been the other way around with guys getting the cool new thing and girls getting some incomplete recolour, do you think you would have been okay with that? Especially if it kept happening over and over again?
I loved XIV back in 2.0 because it wasn't like the pandering Korean MMOs I had tried. There were no gender restrictions on races, everyone wore the same stuff with minor differences, and there were equal quantities of gear for everyone- sexy, cute, cool, bad-ass, whatever gear was in the game existed for everybody and had matching counterparts for both genders. Then after the glamour system was implemented, things slowly began to creep towards what we see today. Over time females got an outfit here, an outfit there with no comparable male equivalent. It's come to the point where if you want quality AND quantity, you should play female characters. That shouldn't be.
It's easy to see for most of the people posting ITT that female gear gets the majority of the design love and attention from SE's devs. Whether or not girls have more variety IRL isn't a factor in this, really- SE just says "look at this cute outfit we made for the girls! Oh. What should we do for the guys?" and the answer is almost always 1) plain pants/shirt 2) don't adapt it at all. Do you know how hard it is to find shorts as a guy? Just shorts, coming above the knee, that can be worn by any job/race. It's way harder than it should be, considering how versatile they are. I feel like if SE really had people on top of this who cared they'd realise that shorts are a thing they can use sometimes. And if there are super feminine tops they can't adapt, guys... can go shirtless! We could use more stuff like the South Seas Talisman that add body paint instead. Edda's frilly gothic dress could have been adapted into a gothic suit for men. Lyse's outfit could remove the strip of cloth covering her boobs and lengthen the shorts. And so on. They just choose not to put the work in to make things equal.
We're not asking for girls to get less stuff or for all guys to be forced to "wear mini skirts and high boots". We're asking for SE to stop being lazy with our designs. If girls are getting a unique outfit that hasn't existed previously, we should too. Or at least equally flip-flop between who gets the special new stuff if resources are too strained to do two new things at once. We're paying customers too.