Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[xeoneex]

So I have a problem, that I don't know how to deal with without hurting someone's feelings -_-... I'm freaking out right now and I honestly have no idea how to gently turn someone down who is of the same gender and I think wants a romantic relationship... I mean, I don't swing that way or anything and I will be completey honest after this I'm going to close out my sub and I'm not going to try this again. What the hell am I supposed to do -_-... I'm literally freaking out bad right now.

[Ruri]

So I have a problem, that I don't know how to deal with without hurting someone's feelings -_-... I'm freaking out right now and I honestly have no idea how to gently turn someone down who is of the same gender and I think wants a romantic relationship... I mean, I don't swing that way or anything and I will be completey honest after this I'm going to close out my sub and I'm not going to try this again. What the hell am I supposed to do -_-... I'm literally freaking out bad right now.

The earlier you tell them the truth the better. Just explain you are straight and looking for the same. The longer you wait the more difficult it will be (Has had similar happen)

[hellmach]

So I have a problem, that I don't know how to deal with without hurting someone's feelings -_-... I'm freaking out right now and I honestly have no idea how to gently turn someone down who is of the same gender and I think wants a romantic relationship... I mean, I don't swing that way or anything and I will be completey honest after this I'm going to close out my sub and I'm not going to try this again. What the hell am I supposed to do -_-... I'm literally freaking out bad right now.

I don't think there's a way to reject somebody without hurting their feelings. The best you can do is make the fall "softer" so to speak like most women do when they reject a guy. Just be firm but polite. Don't attack their sexuality but let them know your romantic inclinations aren't they same. Pull yourself together and just do it because this situation is one you gotta nip in the bud real fast before it gets out of control.

[xeoneex]

The earlier you tell them the truth the better. Just explain you are straight and looking for the same. The longer you wait the more difficult it will be (Has had similar happen)

He has autism and I just feel horrible if he doesn't something drastic or something I don't know.

[xeoneex]

I feel so embarrassed right now -_-. I don't even know why. I really need to calm down and get to bed :/.

[Infernoleo]

Server: Siren
Willing to transfer? Maybe. I own a medium house in Shirogane and don't really want to move but for the right person maybe.
Personal Interests: Cooking, Video games, Movies
Play schedule: I'm PST and often from noon till 2am or later
What kind of gamer are you:Mid-core/Hardcore
Character Gender: Female (male irl)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Character wise i don't care but i would ask for a female player.
Main class?: MCH & WAR
Dislikes: toxic players
Goals for the game:Currently working on clearing o4s and building out my house.
Goals for the marriage union Really just want someone fun to hang out with and run content with. would be great if they want to help me work on the house also
Etc: Feel free to pm me ig at Infernoleo true or in discord at infernoleo#6143. I would differently want to get to know you first.

[Ruri]

He has autism and I just feel horrible if he doesn't something drastic or something I don't know.

That's rough but if you wait longer it will just be more painful.

[LetalisInsania]

That's not a nice way to talk. You had my old account banned and I am currently in a dispute with se and psn about this. I have also talked to my parents and a couple of lawyers to. They said if you don't stop harassing me they will contact police and help me out with this and I told se and psn that I did nothing wrong with my account and was misreported by ppl that don't study what they preach. So I say let me find a wife and be happy just as much as you'd be happy. With when you find your someone. In my country it's now illegal to harass and discriminate at all. They will be on your case for sure and that means to all LGBTQ people and the like plus others who are heterosexual or otherwise. This is the truth.

please just stop.
SE was totally right to ban you. You were really popular on my server for some time, for scamming other players off their time, feelings and in some cases also their money -
I've talked to several of your victims and we got screenshots. Someone also made a video and sent it to SE, havent seen that one.
One time youre a guy in his late 20s looking for a woman. Then youre a young transwoman looking for man or woman. Now youre a woman whos a lesbian looking for another woman. You approach ppl and tell them exactly what they wanna hear so they start to trust you. I know at least of two times where you "begged" the other person to pay for your EB package too because you have no money. (Given the fact how often you do a servertransfer, namechange and fantasia, that might be true cause all your money is spent on that) as soon as the other one equipped the band with your name you just logged off and transfered servers, leaving the other one scammed, payed for two for him/her worthless EB packages.
No idea why you do that. Maybe you are unbelievable bored and enjoy to hurt and scam other people.
Maybe you have no idea yourself who you are, so you try out different identities and the reaction of others to them.
Maybe you dislike yourself so much that you feel no one will ever like you for who you are so you make up everything, then panic and vanish.
Either way, your behaviour is unbelievable, escpecially since you see yourself as the victim here.
But stop playing with peoples feelings, stop wasting their time, and stop scaming them off their money.
Scamming might be also illegal in your country? Better go and ask your parents about it, all your lawers, the pope and your neighbors cat.
and feel free to talk to the police. "Hello, police? Yeah I am a scammer on the internet, now ppl call me out for it, what can you do? Interpol already on it? Thanks a lot"
It would be really laughable, but since you hurt a lot of ppl in the progress, it would be time for some self reflection for you.
Stop playing the victim card, youre only ashaming yourself with that. Get some help, get off the internet, no idea.

[Ruri]

I can't sleep i'm kinda freaked out bad. So I finally messaged him and told him I can't do this.

Hopefully in a polite way explaining what you are looking for in a relationship. And I hope it all ends up good for you!

[Yuto_Katsuragi]

People are going to hate me for what I'm about to say but I don't care. I don't want to be around transgender or gay people. It's against my beliefs, it makes me extremely uncomfortable and I dont' want to be around it. IF people want to consider me a horrible monster for disliking it then so be it.It's honestly better than pretending I'm ok with it. Anyway I'm done hate me all you want, dislike, disagree I don't care.

Woah Dude... if u dont like it, then you should just say it. Being honest will hurt him less then something else. Nobody will hate you for being conservative. i dont know what youre trying to aim for with that Statement tho. A lot of homosexual or transgender People post here, so this Statement just feels like trolling to me? Just put a line in your next Post to tell Everyone that youre not looking for People like us. No need to make such a big Fuss and if you really wouldnt care, you wouldnt have mentioned it. Good Luck with that o/