Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Magic-Mal]

That right there is exactly my point, I was trying to state (albeit poorly) that it's not as clear cut black or white as this person constantly states.

It kinda is. Thread shows it.

I never said it can't happen. I said the chances are lower.

A lot lower

[xeoneex]

It kinda is. Thread shows it.

I never said it can't happen. I said the chances are lower.

A lot lower

You are entitled to your opinion. The fact remains it's not going to change how I feel. If I have to "conform" to something simply to find someone then they aren't worth my time. The woman I am meant to be with will very much be open and understanding, whether I find her through this game or not. I simply am not going to change my ideals just to find someone. This is a very low shot to begin with and I'm losing nothing by trying. But you seem to be very hellbent on hammering your point which at this point is really unnecessary.

[JumperX]

You are entitled to your opinion. The fact remains it's not going to change how I feel. If I have to "conform" to something simply to find someone then they aren't worth my time. The woman I am meant to be with will very much be open and understanding, whether I find her through this game or not. I simply am not going to change my ideals just to find someone. This is a very low shot to begin with and I'm losing nothing by trying. But you seem to be very hellbent on hammering your point which at this point is really unnecessary.

I hope you will be very well open and understanding in case that your ideal girl is like you playing the opposite gender (male character) Just saying cuz it would be hilarious to see you being pretty narrow-minded while asking more than you could offer to the ideal girl (just saying)

[LetalisInsania]

I hope you will be very well open and understanding in case that your ideal girl is like you playing the opposite gender (male character) Just saying cuz it would be hilarious to see you being pretty narrow-minded while asking more than you could offer to the ideal girl (just saying)

As a female playing a male character in most games, I have to say a LOT of guys react very weird to a girl playing a male character, even if they play as female themselves. Got asked if I am a lesbian, look like a guy in RL, etc. The best encounter was someone from the FC, guy playing female character, was like "wtf why you play a male character?? " I answered that he plays a female one; as explanation he told me that he prefers to look at a nice female ass. I said "well and maybe I prefer to look at a male ass?" his answer? "???wow, sexist much?? " thought thst was hilarious^^

[JumperX]

As a female playing a male character in most games, I have to say a LOT of guys react very weird to a girl playing a male character, even if they play as female themselves. Got asked if I am a lesbian, look like a guy in RL, etc. The best encounter was someone from the FC, guy playing female character, was like "wtf why you play a male character?? " I answered that he plays a female one; as explanation he told me that he prefers to look at a nice female ass. I said "well and maybe I prefer to look at a male ass?" his answer? "???wow, sexist much?? " thought thst was hilarious^^

I found it ridiculous that part "???wow, sexist much" I guess only females were created exclusively to be stared at and male to be covered up and protect their pure innocence like flowers. I think it will depend in people experience, but yes in most case that is what the majority of guys think.

[xeoneex]

Most guys are going to be playing a female character for the "I love staring at my sexy toon all day". My reasons are different. I always like outfitting female characters, and I can't stand looking at a male all day just not appealing to me.

I have been doing the MMO thing since UO 1996. I have played female characters all this time. I don't plan to change now. I have always felt extremely comfortable with females. Whether I'm around them physically or playing them. I have alot of trauma having to deal with bullies in school from males, not to say I haven't had my fair share of female bullying (I just had way worse with males). I don't do well with the male sex. That being said I'm willing to look past my significant other playing a male should she so choose. That doesn't mean i'm comfortable with it or like it. But I understand and choose to accept it in order to find that special person who would be accepting of me.

[Magic-Mal]

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If you don't like hearing people speak against what you're saying then stop coming back to the thread basically complaining about how you're still alone and sad for the nth time. No one takes pity as you can see. You say you won't conform to someone else, then don't expect them to conform to you. If you are uncomfortable with a male character at least that means you aren't looking past it and instead just tolerating it meaning you already failed too. If you yourself aren't willing to change under any circumstances then you are close-minded and only thinking of yourself. Okay, but don't get all saddy saddy.

You can keep making excuses like "Oh G.I.R.L." but that doesn't change the fact that it's not 2003 anymore and many many others have succeeded and the fact that there are likely 10-20 women you're around on a daily basis in-game.

Lastly, don't get upset with me because I'm "hammering" things into your head. I only responded to you because you came back. Again. With nothing changed. And I choose to give advice straightforwardly. It's like tough love(No, I don't actually love you..). And if you've been wishing for 21 years for something to happen and it hasn't and you're bringing attention to yourself about it then expect someone to want to "hammer" different outlooks into your head.

Or you can just ignore everyone. If so, keep looking. Good luck.

[xeoneex]

If you don't like hearing people speak against what you're then stop coming back to the thread basically complaining about how you're still alone and sad for the nth time. No one takes pity as you can see. You say you won't conform to someone else, then don't expect them to conform to you. If you are uncomfortable with a male character at least that means you aren't looking past it and instead just tolerating it meaning you already failed too. If you yourself aren't willing to change under any circumstances then you are close-minded and only thinking of yourself. Okay, but don't get all saddy saddy.

You can keep making excuses like "Oh G.I.R.L." but that doesn't change the fact that it's not 2003 anymore and many many others have succeeded and the fact that there are likely 10-20 women you're around on a daily basis in-game.

Lastly, don't get upset with me because I'm "hammering" things into your head. I only responded to you because you came back. Again. With nothing changed. And I choose to give advice straightforwardly. It's like tough love(No, I don't actually love you..). And if you've been wishing for 21 years for something to happen and it hasn't and you're bringing attention to yourself about it then expect someone to want to "hammer" different outlooks into your head.

Or you can just ignore everyone. If so, keep looking. Good luck.

I have been sitting here for a bit wracking my brain with how to properly respond to any of this without getting angry. Seeing, of course you could probably care less responding to post pointless so I'm thinking I shouldn't even bother responding to you at all to be honest. Know that you sound very ignorant though and seeing as you know nothing about me it just compounds that view even harder. *facepalm*. I will simply ignore you and move on as you are not worth my time to get myself riled up over things you SIMPLY....DO....NOT....UNDERSTAND .

PS I'm trying to compose myself with as much restraint as I can humanly muster and apologize if I offend anyone in any way shape or form.

With that I'm done, I will not be responding or filling your ego any further so with that I say good day sir.

[Coratanni]

As a female playing a male character in most games, I have to say a LOT of guys react very weird to a girl playing a male character, even if they play as female themselves. Got asked if I am a lesbian, look like a guy in RL, etc. The best encounter was someone from the FC, guy playing female character, was like "wtf why you play a male character?? " I answered that he plays a female one; as explanation he told me that he prefers to look at a nice female ass. I said "well and maybe I prefer to look at a male ass?" his answer? "???wow, sexist much?? " thought thst was hilarious^^

Big time like on this post.

[Lalafallen]

As a female playing a male character in most games, I have to say a LOT of guys react very weird to a girl playing a male character, even if they play as female themselves.

When I changed to Male!Lala, my FC-leader seemed to be pretty mad about it, telling me women shouldn't be allowed to play male characters. I don't even know why he was bothered by that, since we don't have a special bonding or are interested in each other.