Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[DariusSarvane]

I'm hesitating to put my ad thing back up because I doubt I'll find what I truly am seeking. I don't, my dream is to potentially meet my soulmate (or if that's a stretch my real life partner). I know this is probably a 1% shot and like I said I'm not sure it's wise to even bother with it at this stage. I don't play much either. I've done the MMO scene since 1996 and I've always wished I could meet my significant other doing something I absolutely love. I feel a bit embarrassed putting this up though I probably sound crazy.

its better to try and fail, instead of not trying and sitting there wondering what could of happened. sometimes its better to bite the bullet and go for it

[TenShingai]

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Server: Gobbie(Goblin)
Willing to transfer? Nope, sorry. I got a house and an FC/house to build up.
Personal Interests: Manga, oldies and some new. Looking for interesting old movie covers and giving the film a chance. Cartoons/animation, anime, and playing with cats.
Play schedule: Play a lot during the weekdays. Work weekends, so more in the evening. Pacific timeline
What kind of gamer are you? Casual to mid. Looking to bathe in the tears of savage and extremes though sometime.
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Would like to meet a female, but not against making friends of any and all standings.
Character Race: Lala
Preferred Race: Would like to find another lala, but open to any other.
Main class?: Warrior, almost got my War bear 2.0...distractions though.
Dislikes: Rude and no common courtesy for others type of peoples, onions, Bad luck RNG, the solo life sometimes.
Goals for the game: Build up this new FC for myself and others, still chasing ponies...birbs and doggos. Looking to conquer the other challenges Eorzea has to offer too.
Goals for the marriage union: Glams, choco, peoples envy. Someone to get me to the top of the tower. Taking on the challenging content together rather then alone. Friendship of course. Nothing more or less, then whatever the fates have decided.
Etc:I drank a fanta awhile ago, going from giraffe to potato. Will probably eventually go back once something is too far to reach. Kind of enjoying it though in pvp, and the glam possibilities are kind of hilarious. Uh, I just made an FC and picked up a medium house for it. Still aiming for a large, hopefully in LB. Cause LB is the best...And that is currently where most my focus has been of late. Other then dailies.
Discord - Ten Shingai #0935 I'm usually about there, you may find me hanging out in Limsa too.

Good luck people.

Also really bad at taking good SS'.*

[Magic-Mal]

I know but I promised myself not to get my hopes up in the sense that it's such a long shot to find that special someone in an online game, you know the whole G.I.R.L (Guy in Real LIfe) thing. I just feel I wasn't meant to be one of the few rare people to meet their soulmate MMOing :/. Then again its not really hurting anything by putting it up.

Girls exist. First step is to get off the female character.

Making it short and simple.

[Shantiri]

Girls exist. First step is to get off the female character.

You say that, yet the vast majority of women I've met through this thread didn't mind that I main a female character...

[Arcueid]

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Wouldn't mind playing with more people in the same server though I'm not exactly looking for anything. Discord is goldenpotato#7930

[Magic-Mal]

You say that, yet the vast majority of women I've met through this thread didn't mind that I main a female character...

Yet the vast majority from the thread who have success are ones who end up with male characters. It's to be polite and not present yourself as close-minded even though it's not truly that open because well, science. In other words: "I'm not opposed to a person's gender as a friend* but in the end I am still attracted to males so I would rather see my character marry a male."

Some are direct with it but some aren't. But trust me that some do have preferences that aren't actually listed or else they'd be responding to the guys with female characters as fast as the guys with males. The truth is that just how the average male/male won't look at a female/male before female/female, a female/female won't look at a male/female before a male/male. This isn't including other sexualities but it still counts. Even bisexuals have a preference.

Remember we are talking about getting a bite, a first impression. Imagine it from a woman's eyes.

Hot guy, good person, good in-game hubby material, is a guy IRL VS. Pretty girl, good person, good in-game wife material, is a guy.

[Shantiri]

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That doesn't change that there are indeed women out there who genuinely don't care which gender your video game character is.

[JumperX]

That doesn't change that there are indeed women out there who genuinely don't care which gender your video game character is.

Just like there are guys who dont mind girls playing male characters. I dont understand the point you two are trying to send. In the end, it comes to people prefers and acceptances.

[Shantiri]

In the end, it comes to people prefers and acceptances.

That right there is exactly my point, I was trying to state (albeit poorly) that it's not as clear cut black or white as this person constantly states.

[Magic-Mal]

That right there is exactly my point, I was trying to state (albeit poorly) that it's not as clear cut black or white as this person constantly states.

It kinda is. Thread shows it.

I never said it can't happen. I said the chances are lower.

A lot lower