Well firstly welcome to the Nymian ranks :3 secondly Sadly there have been an influx in such tanks of late. The best thing you can do is focus on healing and dps when you can. Politly ask them to use cooldowns if you notice that they're not and just mention that would make it easier for you to contribute to their dps output.


If they refuse then simply acquiesce to their decision and keep on healing. I know I get made fun of a lot on here for venting but politeness in the end is the best option for dealing with players who are doing something you don't agree with. If they become rude in spite of your composure then simply bow out and leave. you have every right to be treated with respect and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

As for Fey Wind I think it does have a wider aoe mainly because its a damage buff instead of a healing regen. Oh and asmall tip. be sure to use rouse before every cast of Whispering Dawn. It actually buffs dawn and gives you better regen.

again welcome to the community and pm me if you have any healer related questions or venting. I'll be happy to lend an ear