is it okay to not enjoy big pulls?

[MauvaisOeil]

Then maybe raiding is not for you? Play the game however you want. All I can say is please don't waste other people's time if you don't plan to improve. It's like you are telling dota/lol players that ranks don't matter.

I love improving and absolutely hate people who just want to raid but don't improve which is why I only tend to help those people who I know I can help.

Pretty much out of subject. Raiding and feeling the game as a second job are two different things, and you cannot compare a job / paid situation to a gametime, freetime, supposedly enjoying time.

If you're enjoying the game as much as a half assed job, the only answer is : don't play.

You're paying to play this game. You do not get paid to play. Everything in game is just for your amusement.

As far as a dungeon goes tanks are by far the easiest to play, not only do you have extremely high health compared to everyone else you have an ultimate move. Why are people using holohome, I spelled that wrong, and hg as some emergency buttons if you have done a dungeon before you know you can plan your pulls around it. As a main tank now I two have tank anxiety but thats in raids, or in ex trials, but in dungeons its literally nothin to be afraid of if u actually read your tool tips. If you read your tool tips and I mean all skills you would go hmm how many df cool downs do I have as a tank how long do they last.

How many aoe skills do I have see this is essential, if someone mains a dps and using aoe on a dps then how could you not do the same on tank or healers. Same rules apply on every job as far as trash mobs go, I guess people tend to forget that aoe is a thing when switching in between each roll. There is litreally nothin to tankin a dungeon Ill give examples, your on pali basicly flash go to next mob flash go to next mob, gather them up scorn, spam total eclipse until adds die whats exactly hard about that. Samething on drk pop a cool down unleash move to next mob, unleashe again, place salted earth down pop blood price, spam abysmal drain, get mp back up spam some more abysmal drain. Its very easy to tank a dungeon , I think some people just cant bothered to use tool tips is the main issue. But your last part I still have no idea why people dont play tanks I can see healer, but I honestly the more that I play realize that playing dps well is the hardest thing to do in the game while the other roles may have more responsibility.

Dps only worry about themselves. Low need of communication, little interaction with other, and pretty much no way to screw the whole team or save the whole team.

It s a selfish job and even with raid buffs, it won't change. People playing dps want a fast paced self looking role, with little to no responsability.
Is it hard ? As much as any pushing button job.

Good dps are a big addition to a team, but their only difference is that they have an ununding curve, while tank and dps catch a minimal or optimal gameplay and their role is fit.
With tank and heals dpsing, you can add an unending curve to every role, even if less rewarding, thus every role can be as tricky as dps.

Yet, if a dps dies no one bats an eye and little to no stress is put on the team, and they are plentyfull because of this.

No responsability.