Quote Originally Posted by Kohdo View Post
So don't. As you said, you set the pace. If it's not super dooper sonic fast like they want, to hell with them. If they have a problem with it, explain that you don't want to pull big. If they have a problem with that, they can quit and find a different party.
I really don't get this viewpoint, and a lot of tanks seem to have it. You're essentially playing a team based game, why do you think your feelings matter more than the rest of the party's? "I don't want to" isn't a valid reason to not do big pulls when the other three people "want to."