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    Paladinleeds's Avatar
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    Nomfur Farredzasyn
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    Omega
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    White Mage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Snow_Princess View Post
    I think this causes me to run into conflicts. I am fully willing to kick people for being unpleasant to play with (to put it lightly) I run into it is more common that people have "lets get this done" vs kicking someone because of not knowing how to treat people on a social level. For me I do not care how long things take, if you are mistreating someone socially I will put the vote up, even if this means missing daily bonus because I entered the DF just before reset.
    I can see us having significant conflict. I tend to subdue my personality for the most part, but if things get serious enough, I will say something, and I will be blunt. Probably doesn't help I have a communication difficulty on top of my INTJ-t (aka Turbulent Architect, I sometimes swap to ENTJ, which is Commander). Societal norms don't interest me. Competence is the name of the game. Though surprisingly in game I am extremely forgiving, and so long as someone is willing to try their best, I will support them through their struggles. But I can come across as arrogant and judgemental, as well as overly analytical.
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    White Mage ~ Scholar ~ Paladin
    Quote Originally Posted by Spiroglyph View Post
    Boi if you got kicked for the same thing in over 20 duties I strongly suggest you think hard on whatever the hell it is you're doing

    As I'm sure you are well aware, it takes more than one person to be able to kick a player from a duty, so in all those instances there were at least two people agreeing they'd be better off without you tanking.

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    Player Snow_Princess's Avatar
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    Princess Sakura
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    Summoner Lv 52
    Quote Originally Posted by Paladinleeds View Post
    I can see us having significant conflict. I tend to subdue my personality for the most part, but if things get serious enough, I will say something, and I will be blunt. Probably doesn't help I have a communication difficulty on top of my INTJ-t (aka Turbulent Architect, I sometimes swap to ENTJ, which is Commander). Societal norms don't interest me. Competence is the name of the game. Though surprisingly in game I am extremely forgiving, and so long as someone is willing to try their best, I will support them through their struggles. But I can come across as arrogant and judgemental, as well as overly analytical.
    Us? You mean between you and my sissy (she posted all that)
    Here:
    "I do not mean simply giving advice and saying "you did something wrong" Heck just now someone used rng lb too soon and right when they did I said Melee lb> range (we where still fighting) because it only dropped it to 5% left. They told me they did it because I did not use it and I said the reason was because it was not time yet, if the healers knew how the fight went, and not rush the stack markers away from the party to go die, I would of used it right when it chimmed to lb3 in hope we get a 4th. but because there was too high of a risk of people not knowing what to do, I was not going to lb intil around 4%, the point to bring it near dead because we still might of needed the healer LB with how things where going. Then I get insulted with standing in aoes when I was like one of the few that did not die? Makes sense.

    What I mean by treating people is in respect to not trolling (I/e making a premade of 5 or6 just to grief randoms in forcing ravana to wipe because I am soloing adds) Pulling elvatator levers in MSQ roulette before the other6 people are on the pad, then says nothing after asking about it < kicked them over it, someone else put up that vote before I got to, and was shocked on that. Or basically trying curse people out and tell them they suck or uninstall. I had a few groups that really went to town on harassing me and expect me put up with it because "duty is almost done" ... I really hate premade shielding =/

    anyways I do not want to derail too much so .. I thought I'd end the guessing game ;p oh well.

    Main class: Most of the jobs
    Race/gender: Lalafall female

    nice to meet you:3 after all I did take something funny you said and put it as sissy's sig
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    Last edited by Snow_Princess; 08-11-2017 at 05:45 AM.