I need everyone's advice please

[Malzian]

I've removed that link now as I don't fancy getting myself banned over him (thank you for informing me).
I'm just going to have to sit this out I guess and see what happens. Not alot seems to be done about it so far though.

Quick Edit: I tried blacklisting him but he stalked me. I've removed him off blacklist so I can see if there were any PM's due my way and if so then I log them and send them to the GM's. They asked me to blacklist him so I did but when I sent evidence of him harassing me outside my fc house (he's not in my fc) they still did nothing. I removed him off BL and now just let him do his own thing, I take logs, I send them to GM's. Either the GM's will get bored first or he will

You're welcome. Also, there is no PM "back log". If you have him on your blacklist then he won't be able to send you messages and he will get a notification starting that he is unable to message you. Please do take the GM's advice and keep him on the BL and let them handle it. Even by coming here and posting this you are giving him what he wants: your attention and concern. The best way to deal with something like this is to report it and move on.

[A1ch3mi57]

I check his search infos because he's put links on there containing offensive material about me so I log them.
Also another reason I don't have him on black list is because I never removed him off my friend list (on a second re-add). I can monitor where he is so I can avoid him (let's face it I'd rather not see him). Player search only works if they're online and doesn't read true if they're in a dungeon. If he's offline then my FL will display it. In short: the more I know of his whereabouts the better I can avoid him

[AlphaFox]

If you don't have him black listed then you are just keeping yourself open to his harassment far more because he knows you are getting the messages =/

[Avatre]

Also another reason I don't have him on black list is because I never removed him off my friend list (on a second re-add). I can monitor where he is so I can avoid him (let's face it I'd rather not see him). Player search only works if they're online and doesn't read true if they're in a dungeon. If he's offline then my FL will display it. In short: the more I know of his whereabouts the better I can avoid him

That works both ways sadly. With him still being on your friend list he can track, and follow you. For your own sanity, and to stop him from being able to constantly harass you, PLEASE remove him right away.

[Dustytome]

That works both ways sadly. With him still being on your friend list he can track, and follow you. For your own sanity, and to stop him from being able to constantly harass you, PLEASE remove him right away.

I don't think the friend list works that way unfortunately. Accepting someone's friend invite adds you to their list and them to yours, removing them however does not affect their list.

[Malzian]

I check his search infos because he's put links on there containing offensive material about me so I log them.
Also another reason I don't have him on black list is because I never removed him off my friend list (on a second re-add). I can monitor where he is so I can avoid him (let's face it I'd rather not see him). Player search only works if they're online and doesn't read true if they're in a dungeon. If he's offline then my FL will display it. In short: the more I know of his whereabouts the better I can avoid him

In my opinion, you're investing far too much of your time into this. I will reiterate... The more you pay attention to him, the more you check these things and report them, the more you "track" him to avoid him the more he knows that he is getting to you and thus fulfilling his goal. All of this is giving him exactly what he wants and it is ruining your time in the game. Also, since he's on your friends list (which he will now know thanks to you mentioning this all here should he look on the forums) he can send you things in the Mog Mail even while on your Blacklist.

Once more, as it is evident from your posts... He is winning. I can't force you to let this go, but having been through this myself several times with people, you're not doing yourself any favors by persisting in this manner.

[A1ch3mi57]

If I remove him it doesn't remove me nor does blacklisting. I know he has me on his list so I'm powerless to change it. The only way I will ever be off his friendslist is if he does it himself. Also on another note, blacklisting doesn't come up with any errors messages saying the player didn't get the message. I believe if you have them on your FL but they blacklist you then the mooglemail system says an error has occured but that's it. Besides the point, I know I need to blacklist him *sigh*