Lordt this thread is a dumpster fire!

OP, you simply must provide context because when I hear "I was kicked for being a straight, white male" I immediately assume you must have done or said something particularly icky. I'm queer, Jewish and the leader of a no-tolerance-for-sexism, racism etc. FC, and I have literally never had to kick any of the straight white males in our FC. We get along fabulously simply put, because they know what is and is not okay to do and say. So without some screencaps, I will assume either you did something bad or they assumed you did and poor communication happened.

If either of those are true, consider this a learning opportunity and try to make amends. If they still want nothing to do with you, then find a group with which you are a better match.