It will start downloading for PSN on Thursday (15th) right? I have that day off and XIV down for maintenance that day anyways so if it doesn't do it then I will just contact them then. Although I did not pre-order from PSN and did physical copy from best buy I did get pre-order code that gave me a PSN code that I entered into PSN and under my service list is says

Final Fantasy XIVl: Stormblood Early Access
Final Fantasy XIV: Stormblood Early Access Tracker