Yoshi P to Mr.Happy "Heal DPS is not mandatory and no expectation for Healer to DPS!"

[Albinosmurfs]

I'm just surprised how mad people get that they play with players of varying skill and attentiveness in a random queue... Not everyone is going to try hard especially for farm content in a random queue. If you want everyone you play with to try hard like you do then join a free company with that mentality and run things with them.

Edit

There most certainly exist DPS checks. There are several places where mechanics is such that if you do not kill certain things quickly enough you will wipe. The best known example would be the Infernal Nail(s) in the Ifrit trial. If the party's average damage per second dealt against those is too low, then it is a wipe. That is a DPS check.

If the game is designed to around a healer not being required to DPS then failing a DPS check is just as much the DPS players fault as anyone else. It means they are also under performing.