Should i stop taking crap from people and just start reporting?

[Natashio]

Someone for playing a portion of the game content the way it was intended to played is not a reportable offense. Like you even mention, they are in no obligation to wait or hold. So means, they also had no reason to give you an explanation why they didn't. Now if you want to use their bad mouthing as an excuse for reporting them, even though you could just moved along and waited for the next pop. Then you just put yourself at their level.

[Mizunoko]

Someone for playing a portion of the game content the way it was intended to played is not a reportable offense. Like you even mention, they are in no obligation to wait or hold. So means, they also had no reason to give you an explanation why they didn't. Now if you want to use their bad mouthing as an excuse for reporting them, even though you could just moved along and waited for the next pop. Then you just put yourself at their level.

the fate thing was more for context i pointed out it wasnt an obligation to hold the fate to kind of emphasise on that not being the reasoning for them being a jerk or reporting. The reason i am a bit upset over this is that theres no reason for someone to just go over the line like that and start cussing me out when i never took it that far myself. I'ts like hitting someone who is swearing at you. Theres no justification to taking it up a step to something worse. I also fail to see how i would be put at their level considering they are the ones that took things too far and started childishly namecalling and swearing at me and i never once did any such thing. Reporting someone for breaking the terms of service is also a part of the game and how the system works so obviously there should be justification in reporting them.