Some people on this thread behave like hungry piranhas ready to devour anyone who dares complain about the house they lost because they took a small break from the game.
SE is the one you should try to bite not other players. It's SE's fault that you can't find a lot because they screwed badly the code and/or have crap server infrastructure which can't handle
instanced housing like other even F2P games can right now.
People should be able to take a break from the game without losing their digital properties. Period.
SE should implement a feature to check who is taking a break and who left the game for good. This can be done with a mobile app or via the Mog Station. If something happen and I want to take a break let's say 2 months but I want to return after that I should be able to log in to Mog Station and valid check my account so I will be able to keep my house because after the off period I will return. Or they can scrap the timer altogether and demolish houses which are inactive for way longer periods like 1 year or 8 months or so.
They did not deliver with housing. They messed it up pretty badly. A feature that everyone should enjoy ended up a super expensive high end game content for few and even when you get one you are risking to lose it only because something happened to you and you weren't able to play for some weeks. It's bad.
And let's not forget that Yoshida himself encourages breaks from this game. Funny isn't it?