So basically, healers should play 110% their potential always to speed the fight , anything less is unaceptable, while dps are expected to play 70-80% and thats okay, anything more its "player skill", interesting.
Well i guess im lucky that is not the mentality in my ex/savage groups (even a few pf ones), as a healer main i always have been treated fairly, even when i said i prefer to stay off cleric for a extra time bc i wasnt geared enough or was learning the fight.