I was tanking a learning run or Sephiroth and a WHM in the group kept getting harassed by dps and Co healer to dps. When theyou caved in to do it the same people harassed that healer for not healing enough. The healer broke down under the stress of it all and left. I did my best to convince the group that dps or no, I want a healer to heal if that's what they wanted to do. Needless to say we didn't clear.

But here's the thing. If the dps meta people could pull their heads out of their asses these things wouldn't happen.

It's one thing if it's Satasha and you aren't dpsing. But if you are playing end game content and you aren't comfortable doing something that gets in the way of your job, you should not be forced to do it.

Dpsing as a healer, at best, is situational . It is not necessarily required but is nice if it can be done.