What is kickable in df for different playstyles?

[LuckiGoLucki]

I just want to start off by saying I have never initiated a kick on anyone nor have I ever been kicked from an instance. Any vote kick I have approved is usually over a player disconnecting and not coming back. I really have to say that these kinds of posts just baffle me. Is kicking people for a difference in "play style" such a huge thing?! People may get angry with me for saying this but if a person finds themselves being kicked a lot then there really might be something wrong with how they are playing and vice versa. Maybe they don't even realize the mistake they are making and unfortunately many are unwilling to explain better tactics. If you find yourself initiating kicks an awful lot maybe take a step back and ask yourself if you are being too picky.

[Adire]

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Not everyone is as lucky as you are, so using your experience as the baseline to judge everyone else's is a bad idea. You are not everyone. I've been put into DF groups with 3 man premades intent on trolling the unlucky person they went in with. I had a healer in Halatali once who had Provoke cross classed and constantly provoked mobs off me and pulled mobs ahead and died on purpose. After 30 minutes of slowly inching toward the last boss, they kicked me and I'm guessing did it without a tank, essentially wasting half an hour of my life.

I've had enough bad experiences like this to change my mind from this being one of the best communities to it being one of the worst I've been a part of. So I'm glad you're luckier than me, but don't discredit other people's opposite experiences.

When I start vote kicks, it's usually for AFKs, offline people who don't come back after 10 minutes or so, and people who are playing terribly when I'm not in the mood for it and I'm convinced my party isn't either.

[MicahZerrshia]

I've been put into DF groups with 3 man premades intent on trolling the unlucky person they went in with.

I was in one, it was the Antitower, where we entered, the other three were obviously together chatting from the start. I was smn and the healer said after tank pulled, "I gotta take a sh--, Mica you heal while I'm gone. It's gonna be awhile, I had indian food for dinner" for real this happened.

Obviously I didn't heal, my little smn heals are going to do nothing. I got vote kicked there after some colorful language and emotes from the tank and the other dps. Luckily it was, of course, in the log and I had a nice chat with the GM afterward. I could almost see them shaking their head with their jaw hanging open.

In most cases of a vote kick that I have personally seen for playstyle reasons, it's things like smns who refuse to use dots, brds who don't sing, healers who don't dps and do not even draw their weapon for multiple pulls and in the case of sch set eos and stand idle. Tanks who don't use stances or cooldowns, blms who refuse to use fire or use ice-fire-ice-fire rotations. Things such as that. Usually we talk to them beforehand and try to nicely give them tips, but if they get an attitude or use the "it's my sub" argument. Boot.

[LuckiGoLucki]

Not everyone is as lucky as you are, so using your experience as the baseline to judge everyone else's is a bad idea. You are not everyone. So I'm glad you're luckier than me, but don't discredit other people's opposite experiences.

Ok so at no point was I judging anyone or discrediting anyone's experiences. Calm down there. I was asking the general community about how often this actually goes on. Peeps come in here on the forums constantly complaining that they are being kicked all the time. I'm trying to figure out why. Which is why I was suggesting that maybe just maaaaaaybe there is something wrong with how they are handling the dungeon or playing their class. And I even mentioned that there are people who kick others too much for dumb reasons. I think you need to learn what "judging" and "discrediting" actually mean. I'm not saying these things don't happen, I'm trying to get the community to ask "why are they happening".