Alright so maybe I should first provide a bit of background first.

It started when my girlfriend (at the time) and I decided to get married. We both went for the Platinum plan because the items were cool.
We've done the "Ties that Bond Us" pilgrimage, which bound the bracelets to us both.
We didn't schedule it because we wanted to attend a friend's ceremony first, and then see when we were free
Drama happened, we broke up. And she deleted her character.

I had to cancel the ceremony because of this. The quest was on the "complete the ceremony" part, which I couldn't do, so I didn't have any choice but to cancel it.
I thought maybe it would reset the bracelet or something, so I could find someone else who'd be willing to spend $20 to get me cool items.
However, the game makes me surrender the bracelet entirely. The one I spent $20 on. I'm poor so this $20 loss really sucks.

Is there ANYTHING I can do or did I just lose $20 and there's nothing I can do about it?