Hi Hyro
You don't sound like a douche at all dont worry. I welcome the feedback!
Yea there are opportunities to get houses, I don't mean to say that there are never any opportunities. Those opportunities are slim though, and hard to come by. It solves an issue for 1 out of thousands.
I see a lot of FCs, many without houses even though they are rank 6, and have the gil for one. I feel that the content that comes with an FC house far outweighs the content that comes for a player who owns one personally - since you can have a private chamber or an apartment.
Joining another FC doesn't solve that issue, because 9/10 the features are locked to players who already established themselves - or have control - within said FC.
I got very tired of teleporting to every main city, checking both tabs of each ward, hour after hour, just to not see any plots available. I've done this for far longer than just a couple days. Though I admit not so much recently.
I've finally given up and started flipping money to save for a medium - for when they add plots in Stormblood out in Ivalice - though as soon as I did; Someone in my FC left the server to play with a friend they new in real life on another server - and their house became available. Another was gonna just simply give his up to us and was even waiting for us to get the gil ready to repurchase it after he destroyed it, but decided to keep it or donate it elsewhere - which is totally fine.
A friend of mine told me they managed to get a plot just yesterday, but then again in the last few days there has been a lot of server transferring going on. I'll have to keep my eyes open as I could get lucky :P I'll probably be waiting till Stormblood, though.
And I even plan to be up for the expansion, after I purchase my physical CE, and will race on my ninja for the first medium or large plaque I see.... but as you may know the struggle is reals! I just want to see this system get tweaked and tuned so that its fair and fun for everyone - including those who didn't get lucky enough to find an open plot.
We all have the same CHANCE, when the plots are released...and the ones that get it certainly wont be disappointed. But I care about everybody. I want us all to have fun, whether your idea of fun is running an FC, raiding, crafting, gathering, gardening, or even decorating.