Stop queuing for PotD if you don't intend to DPS at all.

[Cynfael]

I just hope its not considered too selfish of me to want to be able to keep people alive, safely

You still haven't explained how the goal of keeping parties alive runs cross-purpose to contributing DPS effectively and appropriately.

Or is that you genuinely don't understand how this works? I suppose it would help explain your attitude if you thought we were all nuts for stating that you could seamlessly work DPS into your healing routine.