I am pretty new and just started up again.

I started a Warrior, as that was what I played a few years ago (only got to about level 40ish) and I have to say, people in dungeons are MEAN!

I always keep the group moving, don't go AFK ever, pull multiple groups ONLY if the healer is DPSing more than Healing and I have at least one defensive up to counteract the initial damage burst. I line of sight ranged mobs, use AoEs as I run in to drag them into optimal positions for the group ... and I still have been yelled at in almost every dungeon I have run so far in the last week.

Either I don't pull enough, or not fast enough, or I am too squishy (I am doing the dungeons at level, not sync), or I roll need on tank gear ... because I need it ...

I am really starting to see why the FFXIV community is so starved for tanks, you people are horrible to them! (well, not YOU people, but the Duty Finder community in general)