i am not mass pull tank

[NekoNova]

same NekoNova i see this way you pulled you tank it.

right now the jobs are alittle inbalance in gear wise and combat wise

we have many healer run around with cleric stance. i been afriad what 4.0 will bring but my belief is all the skills and ability normal cross skill use are only going be modified in way. i kind scare to see what skill get onto the chop block

To be honest it really depends on the party though.
I've had dungeons where I pulled one mob pack, and the healer was Holy spamming as well, and my health never dropped below 75%.
At the case I gambled and pulled 2 packs from that point, making the healer heal more, but we didn't had any problems.
Nobody complaint about the switch and I received three recommendations.
So I think I did well at that point.

But when I notice that on a single pack my health plummets to 10% and need to pop every cooldown, I'm definitely not pulling in more.
No matter how much DPS is complaining.

[FayeRiel]

But when I notice that on a single pack my health plummets to 10% and need to pop every cooldown, I'm definitely not pulling in more.
No matter how much DPS is complaining.

It depends though. Some healers who know how to use their spells sometimes let the tank's health drop low before they take off cleric stance to top him/her off. As long as the tank doesn't die and is topped off fast enough there really isn't an issue, although I understand that it could give the tank a bit of a heart attack watching his/her health dwindle down. The problem is sometimes with healers who panic and forget to take off cleric stance before healing, or when the game lags a bit. I personally don't let a tank's health drop below 40% since a lot of things can go wrong, which are out of my control such as lag spikes, etc. - unless it is my husband tanking, then I let him go down to 2000 health or so before topping off (he trusts my healing though).

[NekoNova]

It depends though. Some healers who know how to use their spells sometimes let the tank's health drop low before they take off cleric stance to top him/her off. As long as the tank doesn't die and is topped off fast enough there really isn't an issue, although I understand that it could give the tank a bit of a heart attack watching his/her health dwindle down. The problem is sometimes with healers who panic and forget to take off cleric stance before healing, or when the game lags a bit. I personally don't let a tank's health drop below 40% since a lot of things can go wrong, which are out of my control such as lag spikes, etc. - unless it is my husband tanking, then I let him go down to 2000 health or so before topping off (he trusts my healing though).

I'm aware of that, does not take away the stress however from seeing my health so low.
I played WHM myself for a long time on another character, and I know about playing like this.
But now being a tank myself I feel really uncomfortable