Last night, wife and I did leveling on our mains of SMN and AST with a FC mate's DRK. We get the Vault and a newbie black mage. Things are doing decently until we wipe on the second boss. During the run back, I get a nice little mini-freeze on my computer, and my ping starts to go a little haywire, but nothing unmanageable. We down the boss and get to Charrybutt. I ask if the BLM knows the fight and he tells how he mostly knows what to do because his last group here was a fail group but had made it this far. I give a quick explanation and we go in. Charibert's rotations screw up my lag something fierce, and we get down to one and a half orb left, wipe. Round Two, DRK buddy's helping the BLM kill orbs while I'm teamed up with the wife to kill them; she and I get four down and they only get two, so, wipe. BLM is also complaining about lag, especially around the double row of knights. I tell them I'm going to re log and hope it kills my lagfest, and it does temporarily. Still a wipe, DRK says the DPS is too low, next thing I know, we're getting a greeting from a new BLM. Seeing 30 minutes left on the timer by this point, she asks what happened, and my DRK buddy explains that the sprout BLM's damage was too low for the fight. We proceed to clear it, no problems.
I know that a lot of the stories we get in here are people picking on sprouts, or others defending them, but this guy simply wasn't pulling his weight. I feel bad we didn't get his clear for him, but for a fight like Charibert, everyone in the party needs to give it their all, especially if they're not synced. I didn't check the guy's gear, so I honestly don't know if that was a factor or not.