Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Archaell]

From calling me beautiful or having to hug/see me before they or I log out. It may seem harmless but I know they are not calling their male friends handsome or asking for a hug before they log out.

If the guy makes you uncomfortable you have to be blunt about it. The worst thing you can do is tolerating his behavior, because then it seems like you are fine with it - he might even think that you like it.

This thread has devolved into pure ranting and complaining about how online people are terrible.
Kinda disheartening.

I wouldn't call it ranting. The purpose of the thread is to help people find partners and the "ranting" has informative value about how to approach or not said task.

[MeiUshu]

If the guy makes you uncomfortable you have to be blunt about it. The worst thing you can do is tolerating his behavior, because then it seems like you are fine with it - he might even think that you like it.



I wouldn't call it ranting. The purpose of the thread is to help people find partners and the "ranting" has informative value about how to approach or not said task.

Saga though is right in this...lets get back in track you can always visit me in Goblin if you want to talk about this more in-depth otherwise let us.....continue be who we are and keep our frustrations / anger / annoyance for our pillow at night lol

[HungryHippo]

This thread has devolved into pure ranting and complaining about how online people are terrible.
Kinda disheartening.

How? I know its very offtopic, but keep in mind, I would say 8/10 females feels like they owe some random guy from this thread or in general in the game, simply because the guy expect more outcome of their friendship, something like a relationship. Things like that doesn't happen over night, then you need the high level maturity to actually make it work.How many guys (sadly) approach girls are just not showing how mature they are, but annoying. Like some people already mentioned, if they want something from the girl, they get denied then they just leaves. Should it be like this? If you want a GF so badly go find one nearby you, they owe no guys anything in this game. I know this post came out as a whiteknight but I just find it patethic really.

Yah, now I will stop about this topic and go back to the main reason why this thread is up.

[Archaell]

Saga though is right in this...lets get back in track you can always visit me in Goblin if you want to talk about this more in-depth otherwise let us.....continue be who we are and keep our frustrations / anger / annoyance for our pillow at night lol

I am here mainly to keep myself entertained at work by discussing topics that pick my interest ^.^" and even with the thread (people) being imperfect it deserves few bumps here and there... tho if some cute math teacher showed up I could get interested in actually using the thread :3 - so much bored at work I started studying mathematics lol

How many guys (sadly) approach girls are just not showing how mature they are, but annoying. Like some people already mentioned, if they want something from the girl, they get denied then they just leaves. Should it be like this?

This is another interesting point. What would you like the guy to do? If he wants something from the girl - the eternal bond etc. - and the girl does not want to be bonded why would he stay around her? To hope that she changes her mind? To persuade her? It's much better if the guy leaves the "no-bond" zone and looks for a girl that could be interested rather then trying to "demand" things in impolite manner.

Sorry for continuing the discussion, but I am having hard time not expressing my opinions >.<

[HungryHippo]

Sorry for continuing the discussion, but I am having hard time not expressing my opinions >.<

If a guy comes off first as a friend, then nearly same day want something more, or just a week after. ERP, constant text messages outside game, etc. Hes expecting more from the girl without knowing her, and there are a lot of cases where the girl even say shes not even slightly interested. This show only what the guy is after, is my whole point. If you want a relationship or sex, then you have the door you can go out and then meet people. This game isn't a dating simulator, this is a game where people wanna PLAY the GAME. However. This is the last time I reply on the topic, we have derailed the whole purpose of this topic already!

[SundayTrash]

Still looking...
Lonely, I'm Mr. Lonely I have nobody for my own. I am so lonely, I'm Mr. Lonely Wish I had someone to call on the phone

[JumperX]

Oh wow, this thread got silent for awhile, but then things start to heat up when it became active. I think some people need to consider that a lot of people in this game are introvert or shy ( I have played other mmos where voice chat was just essential to party and play strategies to clear fights in game). A introvert person doesn't necessarily mean that they will get so much anxiety when they speak with another person or that they want not interact with people.

They just tent to not be like extrovert person that will right away talk what they think. A lot of people "man up" and are brave enough to say what they want by typing it. Although I have not met the right person to EB with, I gotta say I met good and bad people and some of them are my friends now. Funny enough I made more guy friends that girls LOL even though one guy got creepy when we voice chat.

I have used voice chat since I was 17 cuz in my old MMOs, I used to raid a lot. I was a super hardcore so voice chat was normal, but yeah other than that experience, I haven't got any bad experiences with guys from this thread.

[Lokier]

Maybe I should move to Balmung, everyone seems to be there, lmao... Dunno if moving to an NA server would affect my EU promo items or my ability to buy cheap mogstation stuff for £ instead of $ though. :P

[HungryHippo]

Maybe I should move to Balmung, everyone seems to be there, lmao... Dunno if moving to an NA server would affect my EU promo items or my ability to buy cheap mogstation stuff for £ instead of $ though. :P

No it wont effect you, I'm on moogle but otherwise I would play with you. Remember latency etc, because you change to NA from EU, plus times.

[Khemorex]

Maybe I should move to Balmung, everyone seems to be there, lmao... Dunno if moving to an NA server would affect my EU promo items or my ability to buy cheap mogstation stuff for £ instead of $ though. :P

If you have an EU Account it will stay that way , no matter what server ur on ^^ but if u move over to Balmung i never see u DF again :P