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  1. #71
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    Quote Originally Posted by MirielleLavandre View Post
    Again - those people are supporting him. What the OP is doing is akin to one of those white men moving King to the side and saying, "Let me speak for African Americans".
    I guess that's why getting the civil-rights bills passed took so long. If White Person 1 said "I hate black people." White person 2 had sit there in silence and just hope that someone of color would walk into the room, confront White Person 1 so that White Person 2 could stand behind them and say "I agree"

    As I said earlier, Iv never been insulted when straight political and religious leaders, people in the Entertainment Industry with a large platform, or even just regular people teaching their children have voiced their support for LGBT equality.

    When that happens, I guarantee no LGBT person thought the supportive straight person should keep their mouth shut.

    I tend to see the big picture tho. As in the United States. Not the Divided States, where every group only looks after their own.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lokier View Post
    There was sooo much rage from the black community over the fact that she's white and 'pretending' to be black when she does not suffer at the hands of oppression and police violence in the same manner that someone who is black does face. Hell, she probably never even faced racism handed to herself and not just her black friends. White people defending anyone is 'wrong' in everyone's eyes it seems. :P
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    Your black right?
    Because if you are not, people here might get mad at you for talking about the hardships black people have suffered.
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    Last edited by Masquerade; 09-18-2016 at 07:57 AM.

  2. #72
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    Quote Originally Posted by Masquerade View Post
    Your black right?
    Because if you are not, people here might get mad at you for talking about the hardships black people have suffered.
    Just from skimming, it seems people on the thread are more upset that OP is saying war bonnets/head-dresses/tribal attire are racist/inconsiderate, when at least two people of Native heritage have said specifically that they don't care, and are actually excited to wear the gear and represent their culture; and when people have specifically stated that the gear in question has very few RL tribal features outside of the "vibrant colors, feathers, bead necklace" to tie it into a specific tribe (as evidenced by people asking for the OP to say which Native tribe it is offensive to).

    Not gonna mention the points brought up by a few stating that the inclusion of Korean/Chinese/Japanese/Persian/Romani attire did not bring up this kind of thread, when each group has suffered hardships.
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  3. #73
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    They could always research how and why specifically and then offer it as a reward from the Vanuvanu, Amalja, or Ixali something.
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  4. #74
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    Quote Originally Posted by Seryne View Post
    Can I just point out that someone who is Native American posted in here and said they weren't offended by this?
    You can point it out how much you want. Don't make them your token. It's intellectually demeaning to both sides.

    It doesn't change anything. We were all raised differently -- some intimate with our people's beliefs, or some who were born urban-indigenous in a society that's not quite familiar with the teachings. Heck, even at this point many of our elders or teachers are simply dead and that knowledge is lost.

    My people's regalia isn't your costume.
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    This comes under a degree of respect - something I'd hope that people in this thread might stop to consider. The importance of the war bonnet to many First Nations, or American-Indian peoples is quite significant. As much as I can summarize it the war bonnet, and even the earning of feathers, is used to mark significant points of your life and contributions to your people. For example, the bonnet is often used to denote a position of leadership amongst our people which is often synonymous between our elders. They're awarded to soldiers or survivors (such as those who made it through the residential school). There is a heavy degree of spirituality associated with it.
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    Now, all that said. We're particularly resilient beyond the fact. The bonnet, or really, any headdress is routinely used as a costume in Halloween or Thanksgiving. It gets quite a bit frustrating, seeing the colonizer and people responsible for a good deal of suffering yet unaddressed taking a particularly important piece of our heritage and then popping it up as a quest reward or something you can buy in their store. I totally understand where some people might have grievances, and I agree. For the remainder, if you want to wear this, at least acknowledge it. Don't be so callous in disregarding people's concerns about this becoming a quest item. I've seen quite a few comments like that already.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Masquerade View Post
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    You're actively misinterpreting what people are saying. All they're saying is until we know how actual Native Americans feel about this, (and the few that we know have responded see it as no big deal it seems) then it's kind of silly to get offended on their behalf if you're not Native American. This isn't a case of sticking up for someones civil rights or anything, it's about if the object has enough religious or cultural meaning to warrant its removal, and quite frankly no one has a real say in that except for someone of that culture.

    It's okay as a non-Native American to bring the problem up, but you can't speak FOR them. Instead, OP probably should have said something like:

    "From my understanding war bonnets are an important part of NA culture, and I was wondering if any NAs could share their opinion on its inclusion as it seems like it could become an issue to me."

    There, now she's both pointed out the possible problem, but has created a proper forum for people actually relevant to the problem to speak.
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  8. #78
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vantilles View Post
    My people's regalia isn't your costume.
    actually it is, as anyone is allowed to wear anything they want (unless you live in north korea then you can't read this because you can't get on the internet anyways)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gemma View Post
    As a Native American I can say that I don't find this offensive & am actually looking forward to wearing the female version of the outfit.
    We have outfits inspired by all sorts of cultures, why can't we have clothing inspired by Native American culture?

    At the end of the day this is just a game, and the devs are not putting the outfit in the game in a mocking way, so why take offense?
    This deserves to be quoted again, as the most legitimate response to the OP's post.

    The costume is not used to mock or offend, so this is just another case of someone being offended because he or she simply chose to be offended.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicolepwned View Post
    at least two people of Native heritage have said specifically that they don't care, and are actually excited to wear
    So if three Native American came on here and said they feel it's racist, then it that would mean it is racist? 2 v3

    Quote Originally Posted by Nicolepwned View Post
    Just from skimming, it seems people on the thread are more upset that OP is saying war bonnets/head-dresses/tribal attire are racist/inconsiderate,
    I think what has people upset is that the argument implies that if you don't think it wrong, then you must be racist yourself. And so they are responding in aggressive defense.

    Now I myself do not find it racist. As I said in my first post on the thread "Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery" The only thing I can think of that would make offensive, is if the tied it with the Golden Saucer. To make like an Indian Casino reference.
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