Lawd Lawd Lawd! Ok here is the thing, you want a full set of gear and that is time consuming. Crafting each component is time consuming. You want to cut corners which is even more time consuming. It isn't going to be about insulting them it will be about if they have the time to do it. For instance, I have crafted many accessory sets from scratch it is at least an hour of crafting. Those from what I understand aren't nearly as involved as the main side pieces. GRIND THAT ESO GRIND IT GUD! I have the person provide all the mats, and crystals, they don't have to be HQ but they want a HQ item I would go for a half and half ratio of HQ components as a guide. Also, HQ food for your crafter depending on their preference and which stats they like to stack. Your issue is going to be getting a leather/wvr/arm combo specialist... a rare beasty indeed but I am on a small server. Set up a PF and see if you get any feedback. We have a crafting ls on my server that watches for such things.