server transfer, can't select my character

[Catwho]

So I'm on the mog station, said my goodbyes left my Fc
am trying to use the transfer service, i can select my destination world, but cannot select any character or my current world in the field below.

Any ideas what I can do, what's going on?

never mind, figured it out whilst being a emotional mess, mods you can delete this....

What was it? Don't leave us in suspense.