I don't want to tank dungeons anymore...

[Fenral]

Communication is indeed key, but if people ask for bigger pulls and you refuse then you're being inconsiderate.

Each time I get in heavensward's dungeons, a dps or more ofter the healer (yeah the healer) just go foward and pull the mobs before me. I tell them not to, they get mad and start blabbering things like he doesn't have time for this and I should be pulling more. I am not a bad tank, in fact, I usually don't have issue with more bobs at once.

You don't need to pull everything, but there's honestly no reason to pull one group at a time. Y'all can keep coming up with whatever excuses you want, but at the end of the day it's just laziness or bad play. And neither of those things are your group's fault.

Please actually read the first post, understand the topic, and for the love of effing god, stop trying to turn this discussion into "big pulls are always objectively right or you're just bad." That's not even the issue being discussed.

The problem is people besides the tank trying to set the pace without communicating. People who communicate can sort things out and come to terms, and you may be surprised that a mutually agreed-upon pace does, in fact, lead to a smoother and faster run than just assuming bigger is always better.