Thanks everyone hah, I don't have a hard time as a tank it's just the little things that I wish the other people did well I'm tanking that kind of irk me as of late.
I'm sure it'll wear off soon enough but for me I can feel when a parties going to be good and when they're going to be bad just by how the peoples actions are in the first few seconds.

Either way I just wanted to get it out there that tanks are people to, not just meat shields.