If I were you, I would leave that FC just because of how incredulous that healer is. That was a disgusting attitude from them thinking the sproutling is entitled to be taught instead of figuring things out themselves.

No one should ever have to be forced to mentor/teach/instruct anyone. Being a tank doesn't mean leader, it just means you're pulling first and holding everything, no other reason. That healer is what's wrong with this game.

Survival is for the strong.