On a side note, maybe you should ease up a little with the "me me me" thinking.

The game isn't just about you.

The game is about us. It's about people playing together to have fun.

DPS meters were one of the worse things to have entered the MMO genre. Over time it became less about "Are we beating the boss?" and more about "Am I beating other raid members in the DPS meters?".

Not everything has to be a "race" you know.