All I have to say was, I came in on low lvl roulette yesterday to get my law tomes. I joined an in progress as DPS. The healer made sure to let the rest of the party and myself know that he'd only been playing four days. The other DPS mentiond that the DRK really should put up Grit. He proceded to lecture us that he was not going to do so because it would decrease his damage out put. While I am not a level 60 tank, I am a level 50 one. I understand.. I *really* do, that when you're tanking you want to do more than pop you defensive cooldowns.

However, it's down right nasty to sit there and ignore the polite requests and then further pleas of your other party members and healer to use your freaking defensive capabilities instead of getting hit like a wet napkin with a hammer.


Needless to say, he continued to be rude and refused and since he kept pulling.. no one could kick him. :/ I apologized to the healer and other dps and logged out after calling him out for a third time.

This kind of attitude is on that I've seen a lot since the release of HW.

Not everybody needs to be the "hero." Sometimes doing you role in the party is what makes you shine instead of deciding that you need to be a special snowflake. It's not just about you. It's about the other players as well. We're contributing our time as a team to finish the dungeon, and people like this tank need to get their head out of their arse and deflate their ego. It's disgusting.