Thanks everyone. Yeah I have no prob standing up to people, I guess was just wondering more if it was me, like if there's better gear somewhere or if I should have done something else before trying this dungeon, even though I meet all the requirements. I think that's my biggest pet peeve, when a tank pulls big, and your MP is down to like 20% and they just rush off to the next pull! The boss I actually found easy and had no problems, it was just during the pulls on the way was hard to keep up, almost felt like I had Slow on me or something.