I would think that talking throughout a dungeon wouldn't be that big an issue to most. Just throw out a couple conversation starters and if no one bites though, don't keep going with it.



I would think that talking throughout a dungeon wouldn't be that big an issue to most. Just throw out a couple conversation starters and if no one bites though, don't keep going with it.
I was going to read this whole thread, but after 9 pages I'm just going to drop this:
First, I run with friends. I also run solo. I have received a dismiss that I asked for because I could not out the heals that a speed runner needed. After 2-3 fails to the pull, I said I was not the healer they needed, so please dismiss me.
I have initiated A TON of kicks, too.
Most dominant reason: you are awful. I classify carrying bad players as harassment. Auto-attacking bards do not deserve currency for watching Hello Kitty while we work for his Zodiac drop.
In the case of the OP... I've seen abusive players (pull or I'll pull for you attitude) just play down right terribly.
They get the special "at the last boss" kick. I endured your horrible play and worse attitude all dungeon... karma time.
Or simply they thought they couldn't complete the dungeon with you. Either way: that's what it is there for.

Each time you are vote kicked, you should reflect on what you have done wrong and vow never to do that again. If you are diligent with this you will one day be allowed to play with other people for the entirety of the dungeon.
For every unjust votekick theres thousands of perfectly fine runs.
I havn't vote kicked anyone in a long time till yesterday. Maybe a newbie and the sole reason we were in the dungeon but no excuse for her actions. Despite best effort to teach her, kept pulling her gold carbuncle and running ahead of everyone and at one point we all agreed it was a bot at one point and just removed her from the group. Now main reason I say this? Cus we had a reason to remove her even if she felt she was doing nothing wrong.

Here is some food for thought OP... I am generally a very nice person in-game & IRL. If someone makes a mistake, I brush it off. If I think they may need help with something, I try to explain them the right way to do it (in a nice manner). I bring a positive attitude to every dungeon I run, even if there are several wipes, I remind myself that this is just a game and it's not the end of the world. You want to know something strange? I have NEVER been vote-kicked. There is a saying that I'm very fond of: If you meet a jerk in the morning, you met a jerk, but if you meet jerks all day, then maybe you're the jerk. Of course "jerk" is being replaced with a word that rhymes with "ask-pole", but you get the idea. Try being nice and less abrasive, and the vote-kicks will cease.
...And I mean this in the nicest way possible![]()

Since the day I have been playing, I have been kicked like 3-4 times, and I will admit they were MY fault! If I see someone pull and shouldn't I give them a warning if they pull again, I just don't heal them.
Sadly, I am sure some abuse the vote-kick and for that, im sorry for the people that it happened to.
Last edited by TinyMonster; 07-01-2015 at 02:02 AM.


I was vote kicked as a tank, because a mnk ran into the first boss and started the encounter before ppl were ready. So I stayed out and he tanked the whole fight. I got the impression he was just showing off to friends at my expense. A votekick followed shortly after the fight was done. Weird thing is I didn't even say anything up to that point. When they were fighting the boss I just said I was eating some snacks and cheering them on.
Free 15 law for me without barely any effortbut yeah ppl really will kick for stupid reasons.
Thinking about it now I should have reported him for harassment and abuse of the votekick feature.
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You can be a saint, say nothing to offend (or anything at all) and still be vote kicked. If two people que together and they don't like your playstyle, you're screwed. So before you judge anyone based off your personal experience, maybe think about all the random factors that can be brought up.Here is some food for thought OP... I am generally a very nice person in-game & IRL. If someone makes a mistake, I brush it off. If I think they may need help with something, I try to explain them the right way to do it (in a nice manner). I bring a positive attitude to every dungeon I run, even if there are several wipes, I remind myself that this is just a game and it's not the end of the world. You want to know something strange? I have NEVER been vote-kicked. There is a saying that I'm very fond of: If you meet a jerk in the morning, you met a jerk, but if you meet jerks all day, then maybe you're the jerk. Of course "jerk" is being replaced with a word that rhymes with "ask-pole", but you get the idea. Try being nice and less abrasive, and the vote-kicks will cease.
...And I mean this in the nicest way possible

This is true, but if that was the case, the vote-kicking would be rare. OP says it happens all the time to him/her. That is not due to random factors/blips. The OP even admitting to talking trash to the tank, so my point still stands.You can be a saint, say nothing to offend (or anything at all) and still be vote kicked. If two people que together and they don't like your playstyle, you're screwed. So before you judge anyone based off your personal experience, maybe think about all the random factors that can be brought up.
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but yeah ppl really will kick for stupid reasons. 



